More Mistakes
Minor 'Lost Mine Of Phandelver' spoilers in this episode.
This week I host Derrick from the How Not To DM podcast (HN2DM), to once again talk about all the glorious mistakes we make! the most value from these kinds of discussions, however, is not what to avoid, but what can be learned. We are all beginners at some point, and so we share our experiences and how they can bring us all together in this hobby we love.
- 05:56 - The Biggest Mistake
- 18:54 - The Learning Experience
- 31:49 - What Makes a Good Player
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Intro Music: 'Local Forecast' by Kevin MacLeod
Intermission Music: 'Chill' by Kevin MacLeod
Outro Music: 'Local Forecast - Elevator' by Kevin MacLeod
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welcome thinkers to season 4 episode 9
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of thinking critically a d d discussion
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this week I just want to drive you all
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to the website thinking critically dot
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Co dot UK because there you can search
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by category and also by guests and see
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who you've had on the show previously
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and also off the top of my head there's
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also links to patreon and Kofi
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and also you can see what projects I've
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had the luck to be invited onto and
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there's some really good stuff on there
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so I'd really recommend it so yeah
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thinking critically dot Co dot UK and as
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usual check out the link to dungeons
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Dyson dudes where you can hear me be a
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player with that out of the way strap in
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for today's episode
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joined by Derek the host of The Hamilton
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podcast thank you ever so much for
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joining us today Derek can you tell us a
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little bit about yourself
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yes first of all thanks so much for
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having me on uh Dan uh Danilo Danny what
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do you what do you prefer to be called I
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mean
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I mean so many things you know don't go
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down low why don't we make it make it
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okay A Change down below the the very UK
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pronunciation of your name yes
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sorry Brits I gotta take a little dick
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when I can so uh all right uh yeah so
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I'm Derek I live in the great state of
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Utah grew up in the state of Colorado
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just to the east uh spent my whole life
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save a few years here and there uh in
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the Rocky Mountains so that's kind of
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been where I've lived and it's shaped a
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lot about me it shaped a lot about what
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I enjoy to do when I'm not podcasting
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and when I'm not playing d d I like
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being outside I like you know grilling I
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like hiking I like skiing that kind of
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thing a lot of outdoorsy stuff like
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playing sports that sort of thing but
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yeah uh so that's where I live I've been
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playing games for about
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yeah four years now
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um and most of that has been running
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games uh with a few uh interludes here
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and there right I started off as a
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player just for a few sessions here and
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there played through lost line of
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fandelver game with my co-workers and
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brother at work during lunch breaks
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which was a lot of fun uh then halfway
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through that I said this dming thing
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seems really fun I should start writing
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my own stuff opened up a Google doc
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began dumping ideas out from from inside
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my brain in there and have been going
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ever since so uh yeah like I said uh
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every summer I or the last couple
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Summers I've taken off and um some other
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member of my gaming group will take over
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uh right now that same brother is is
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running us through uh water deep Dragon
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Heist which has been a lot of fun
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haven't played through it yet so just
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started that last summer we did a game
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in um Matt Mercer's uh wild Mount
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campaign book uh that my other friend
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Matthew ran uh which was a ton of fun
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too we did like a really high level
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exploration of aorian ruins so if you no
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critical role you know what I'm talking
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about but if you don't then you should
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go check it out but yeah that's that's
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kind of what I've been doing of late a
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lot of d d I've played a few other games
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here and there I have a bunch of books
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of stuff I'd like to play but it's just
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uh you know in the middle of a game
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right now I don't want to stop our
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momentum yeah but yeah eventually I'd
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love to play some Star Wars I would love
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to try monster of the week have all
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those books I have a Star Finder book I
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have some Pathfinder books that I have
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uh yet to dig into so someday I will
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play all of these games I keep telling
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myself as I buy more and more yeah yeah
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I mean I've got my alien dtrpg box
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sitting downstairs that I love to read
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through and then was like yeah no I just
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have to find time yeah my friend Fiona
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uh she lives up in Burnley or no she
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lives in London she's from Burnley
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um she is a big fan of alien too and one
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of these days I'd love to play with her
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so if we do I'll let you know oh yeah
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please oh that's a hidden value to this
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episode recording I'm happy with now
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that's good
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uh well thank you so much today's topic
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is mistakes so what does that mean to
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you in the D D and wider ttrpg framework
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yeah uh so I'm cheating a little bit
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here because of my own show which I will
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talk about later uh but I have another a
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podcast called how not to DM a more
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structured interview uh than your show
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so slightly different but I love to ask
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people about the mistakes they've made
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while running games and what kinds of
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lessons the rest of us can learn from
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them so that we don't make the same
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mistakes you have I I guess is kind of
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like the idea behind it right so I chose
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mistakes because I've heard of a lot of
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mistakes people have made over the past
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year and some change
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um but I know I make a ton of them
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myself
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and uh yeah I just think it's it's a
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really interesting thing to talk about
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because uh they're they're kind of two
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mindsets that I've heard people have
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um most people will have the mindset of
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I've made a lot of mistakes here's what
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they are and then other people have the
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mindset of you know I've never actually
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made a mistake and I go what do you mean
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um but they say it's because it's always
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a learning experience and in my mind
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they're they're kind of the same thing
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but uh yeah that's why I wanted to talk
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about them because
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I think you and I both having a decade
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of experience running games here um
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combined will will have a lot of ideas
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about what kind of mistakes people could
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make but then also what good things
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we've learned from them and how that
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could make any listener out there see
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things differently or perhaps avoid some
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of the the pitfalls that we've
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experienced yeah and that that's exactly
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what I think I love
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telling other people not just about my d
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d mistakes but about my General Life
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mistakes uh true and work and whatnot
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because I'm like please let me help you
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live live vicariously through me and
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just have the benefit of me making the
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mistake so you don't have to have the
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cost uh and the same it said for D and D
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but I want to ask as the premise of your
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show is you know asking people what
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their mistakes and keep it keep it nice
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and anonymized but what was the biggest
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or the one that had the most impact
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shall we say it's hard to obviously
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judge this there's no there's no like
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you know objective metric but in terms
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of what was the one thing that someone
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told you and you went wow okay
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the one that comes to mind for me is
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about someone not doing
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um some work up front before starting
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the game a lot of people call that a
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session zero to make sure that the
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players that they were going to be
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playing with were comfortable with
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certain subject matters that they had
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coming up in their game the funny thing
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about this is I've talked to a few
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different people who've made the same
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point that the people they play games
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with sometimes they've known for for
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decades you know they've been friends
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since they were very young and yet still
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there can be things that get brought up
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in a game you're playing together that
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you don't know are really triggering or
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could be really sensitive topics for
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them and that's fascinating right like
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I know few people I would say well
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enough to say
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exactly what is and isn't going to be
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triggering for them just because they're
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they're like family or or extremely
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close friends right and even my close
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friends you know you don't know what
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they go through day to day you don't
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know what's happening within their
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family
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um or or their life experiences
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necessarily and unless they've shared
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everything with you you don't know that
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so yeah the the big Palm sweating
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mistakes that that I've heard um people
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mention in my show or or just kind of in
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conversation are the ones where they
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feel like they know someone really well
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and then they bring up something in a
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game that is just very traumatizing for
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someone that they uh know really well
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and they have to walk it back they put
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their foot in their mouth you know they
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apologize and most of the time it seems
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like it it turns out okay but I'm sure
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there have been times that I haven't
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heard of where that ruins a friendship
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uh or or a relationship you have with
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someone so yeah a big minefield
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and I think it's just best practice to
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make sure that you are all on the same
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page before you start just in case
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especially if you're planning on doing
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you know horror type or like gruesome or
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whatever type games uh anything that's
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going to be graphic or that that uh a
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movie would list as like a reason why
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it's rated what it is I think is
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something you should discuss yeah it
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isn't just like sword and board dungeon
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Delvin
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yeah there's there's one the fortune
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I've never been I've made never made
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that bigger faux pas same but one of the
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players in my game is again I know very
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well we we meet up every two weeks to
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play ball games together
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um it works he was my boss for like
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three four years or something so in my
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career so that's like eight hours a day
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every day with that person but even
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still he has a kid which is something I
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don't have so there is
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like there's life experience there that
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I cannot empathize with yet and there
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were times when we have
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played and there's been children
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involved in the game and I've seen him
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wince and I've had to have a second to
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go ah okay going forward I might wind
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that in a little bit because it that's
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something I would never have thought
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about or even considered because I'm
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just not in that mindset yes and that's
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yeah precisely a very lightweight
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version of what we've what you've just
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discussed as the closest I've been yeah
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in speaking as a newer father I totally
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get what you're saying and
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now like watching TV and movies and
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stuff before my son was born none of
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that stuff would have really bothered me
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but now that he's around and I can just
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like like you said empathize I can put
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myself in the shoes of the people who
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are losing kids or or whatever is
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happening in the show or the movie or
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whatever it is that I'm consuming yeah
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it has and like a a real impact on me
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because I I like know what it would feel
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like or or can can imagine what it would
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feel like so yeah it's it's crazy right
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everybody has such different experiences
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and you never know what is or is going
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to be something that that digs something
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up for someone so it's just best to to
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lay it all out in the open and be
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cautious about it because I say so we've
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done like the serious face mistake now
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that has like real world implications I
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want to hear about like goofy like
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slapstick mistakes of anything that you
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might but the biggest one that was like
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well I guess they can teleport now or
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they've all got wings that whoops uh
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anyway yeah
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um so a funny one uh and it kind of
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seems trivial but I ran last minor fan
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Delver for my group after having played
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through it as like the the introduction
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to d d and then I have homebrewed off of
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that and we've kind of gone different
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directions since then but yeah after
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finishing the mine um there's a plot
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hook spoilers for lost minor fendover if
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you haven't played it there's a plot
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hook where within the mine you find a
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map and the guide or the book says and
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you could put a map in here that for the
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players to find and if they find it it
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could be your plot hook for your next
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adventure and I was like perfect that I
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will use that you know I'll use that
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plot hook and it'll be a treasure map
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you know a bunch of islands and like
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stuff you've got to find and a bunch of
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little x's and you've got to figure out
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why you've you know you're going to to
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all these different places so I thought
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it'd be fun to do the little pirate uh
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kind of campaign or a little treasure
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hunting after that so
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the the players went off made friends
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with a a captain you know started
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sailing around and going to all these
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spots and um I gave them as a magical
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item I was like because I was a new DM
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and because I had just stopped running a
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published Adventure that is very much uh
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on the rails right you can you can uh
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improvise as much as you want with
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written stuff or published stuff but
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because I was new I was just going
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exactly by the book and so that's kind
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of how I structured this next adventure
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but I was trying to figure out how do I
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get them to just go from A to B to C to
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D and get them to go in the right order
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in the right direction uh essentially
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trying to Railroad them like how am I
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gonna do this so I gave them a magical
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item which is a small Compass much like
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Jack Sparrow's compass that that points
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at something but you have to tell it
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what you want
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and then it consumes a gold coin and it
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will point at the direction of the thing
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you have described or you've told it
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um you want to go do or or go um find
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and believe it or not giving your
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players something that can find anything
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or anyone in your whole world
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whenever they want it could be a little
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game breaking yeah
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so
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um
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I I joke like we joke uh you know and
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they're all really good players so
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they're not trying to destroy my game or
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or like be you know as chaotic as
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possible they're pretty good at
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following plot hooks anyway so
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um they've been good at not abusing it
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and I found some ways to Nerf it so to
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speak here and there like I've limited
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it to the number of times they can use
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it per day and oftentimes it just like
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sits in their bag of holding and they
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don't touch it really you know because
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they forget about it like players do
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with magic items anyway
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um but yeah that was a funny one and uh
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I'm realizing now like having a thing
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that can point you to where whatever you
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want whenever you want means like yeah I
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have to be ready
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to describe any place that they're going
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to go if they think of looking for
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something and then going and finding it
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so but anyway yeah that's that's been
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pretty funny that that is well that I
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love that story because that is
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classic the classic DM naivety of yes
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this is benign and will be great and
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everyone will have a better game for it
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and in the moment the players get it
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it's that look of oh no wait I didn't
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think about 90 of the things they could
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do with this item that happens all the
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time everybody's done it every DM is in
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in from small things to big things that
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exact thing has happened a hundred times
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yes it's the archetypical one so avoid
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The Golden Compass or whatever you want
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to call it don't do that a similar one
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for me is my players on the trail of
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mcguffins basically for like a better
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term and so there's a bunch of artifacts
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it's the classic you know the magical
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Special artifacts some are some are
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weapons some are literally like
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artifacts in in game wondrous items or
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whatever you want to call them and one
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made sense in Universe to be the cubic
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gate so it's literally a cube a big D6
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and on each side there's a it's linked
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to a plane of existence and you can
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press the button and either cast plane
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shift or the other teleportation spell I
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can't remember and when I originally
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designed that's one of them I was like
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they'll get it you know maybe three
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quarters in of throughout all of the
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mcguffins and then they can use it to
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get the final few ones that happen to be
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on these more exotic planes and the way
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that my players went through the
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mcguffins has actually got it quite a
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lot earlier so there's a couple left on
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the material plane and so anything I'd
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had planned from how to get from home
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base to this McGuffin McGuffin a or home
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base tickets this McGuffin B
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the player was like no I'll just
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teleport
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so they they literally trivialized one
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whole chapter that would have taken
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maybe five to ten sessions into three
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sessions because I just went
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to the first place what's going on oh we
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need to go there okay Boop we're there
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now and we've got it and that was it and
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there was like no combat because they
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just did it and got to the end but I
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quite like that because I was like hey
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you've got the special item now it's not
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it you've got it use it like teleport
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around I don't care uh the player was
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the player was very nice and the same
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with your players are good he did say
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like don't know if if you don't want me
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to teleport somewhere we can come up
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with some reason to for it not to fizzle
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out or I I just won't do it in game I
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said you know what no it's fine I've
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made that bed I'm happy to line it makes
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my life easier for us that act a chapter
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so that's fine I'll take that as a free
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video we'll just
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move I love it uh have you played the
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Pokemon
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um games for like Game Boy anything like
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that yeah yeah yeah yeah that reminds me
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of like getting the fly didn't move it
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like uh you know like within your first
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gym badge or something and hell you can
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just fly wherever you want instead of
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having to like progress slowly and visit
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everywhere and then you get to start
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traveling around uh yeah
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so I mean what you see here's the thing
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right so good I'm glad we've
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accidentally stumbled onto this in this
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way of yes it might have been a mistake
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but here's how it was I attempted to
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reframe it in a way that was still
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exciting and interesting was that
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because
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technically it's specifically the cubic
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gate rules is written is it takes you to
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a different plane of existence there's
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one key to every side and if you try and
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press the button that's on you're
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currently no existence nothing happens
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because you're already there okay hunky
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dory my inventive player you get a
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couple of uses a day basically so he was
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like oh so I can teleport to anywhere on
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the material plane as long as I'm not on
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the material plane luckily there's five
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other sides to take me to a different
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plane so what he was doing is they were
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hopping all in to say the astral plane
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for six seconds and then quickly hopping
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back the material plane but to the
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location they wanted to go to it was
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literally just a hop in dip our toes in
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just enough to get us back and then we
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can you can essentially effectively have
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a Teleport on the material plane so
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he has met me halfway and he's tried to
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use a different button every time so
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everyone gets a little glimpse into the
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astral plane or the plane of air and
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then I'm like yeah you've gone to some
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place and there's no ground and you're
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just falling through the sky and then
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everyone looks at that Warlock and it's
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like dude stop taking us to these like
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crazy dangerous places
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yeah plane of fire like they're they're
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in a volcano all of a sudden it's like
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well you take a lot of fire damage yeah
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yeah the plate of fire is one of them
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they haven't pressed it yet
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um but they're gone so yeah there's been
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like every time they've done it at least
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one of them has been like oh no I want
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to go back there because that seemed
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like a really interesting place and I'm
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like yeah because it's a place made of
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dreams and isn't just made of like taxes
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like the material plane is yeah yeah
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before most recording sessions I asked
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my my other half who is not really into
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dtrpgs just for disclaimer but I always
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ask her it's one of the reasons why I
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ask is because I say what is what does
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this word mean to you so I can have a
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completely like out of the bubble idea
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and and she came back with something
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that I hadn't thought of which is
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you can talk about making mistakes and
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regrets and what you can learn from them
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but she raised a good point that was
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like why why or how do these mistakes
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propagate him currently we're talking
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about DM mistakes so let's continue that
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train and say like why or how do you
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think these mistakes and these maybe
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some more archetypical mistakes keep
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happening and maybe some more specific
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and Niche mistakes also have this this
526
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you know so maybe why it's so prone or
527
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why it's so difficult to to do as a as
528
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an activity but you know so the the
529
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chance of making a mistake is so high
530
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relative to say I know running is the
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the first activity that came to my head
532
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yeah uh I think she's got a good point
533
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and I think you made a good point
534
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earlier as well about being naive I
535
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think that that to me is the thing that
536
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leads to the most mistakes especially
537
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early on as being naive to all of the
538
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different things that players may try to
539
00:20:14,039 --> 00:20:18,840
do being naive to all of the the ways
540
00:20:16,679 --> 00:20:20,700
they may exploit what you say or do as
541
00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:23,220
you're running the game
542
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um so that is a big part of it but the
543
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good news is if you're brand new at
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running games
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usually you've either played a lot and
546
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you're with your group that you play
547
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frequently with and so they're
548
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understanding or they're brand new as
549
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well and they're less likely to try to
550
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to punish you for lack of a better term
551
00:20:40,919 --> 00:20:45,720
um with you know whatever you have said
552
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or done that that they can exploit so
553
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:50,280
but yeah I think being naive is a big
554
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thing that that makes you just prone to
555
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:54,659
these common mistakes
556
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and there's there's a clear pattern as
557
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well
558
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um as I'm talking with guests it's a lot
559
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of uh people saying they tried a
560
00:21:00,120 --> 00:21:03,059
railroad at the beginning you know they
561
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thought their story was more interesting
562
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than a collaborative story or they
563
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would limit players like not give them
564
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the yes and option you know uh they
565
00:21:12,179 --> 00:21:16,080
would they would say no you can't do
566
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that you can't try this so a lot of
567
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those again though are kind of like
568
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early on mistakes uh and then as you
569
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play more as you run games more your
570
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view broadens your confidence in winging
571
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it and just flying off the you know off
572
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the cuff trying trying different things
573
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and and making stuff up gets a lot
574
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better as well and uh I think that just
575
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experience you know there's no other um
576
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substitute for it and more experience
577
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equals less likely to make uh silly
578
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:46,380
mistakes like that yeah it's one of
579
00:21:45,299 --> 00:21:48,780
those it's one of those classic things
580
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of like you just got to do it but you
581
00:21:48,780 --> 00:21:52,080
just have to keep and you just have to
582
00:21:49,919 --> 00:21:53,520
keep doing it and keep making those like
583
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goofy mistakes
584
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yeah so so early on I think it's just
585
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being naive uh and then as you get
586
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further down the road I think there's
587
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just some people who well this is a
588
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common a common thing people talk about
589
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is like I guess you're not at the right
590
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table like you you're not playing it at
591
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the right game or or the players that
592
00:22:12,659 --> 00:22:16,140
you're running the game for don't care
593
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about the game you want to run and so
594
00:22:16,140 --> 00:22:19,799
you need to kind of find the game that
595
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you're gonna like or you need to find
596
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the table that's going to want to play
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the game you want to run and I get that
598
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but also I think that a Hallmark of a
599
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good DM and good players is being
600
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flexible and finding the fun in whatever
601
00:22:32,340 --> 00:22:36,780
you're doing now I mean there's some
602
00:22:35,100 --> 00:22:38,340
caveats like if someone said I'm going
603
00:22:36,780 --> 00:22:40,020
to run a political game and it's going
604
00:22:38,340 --> 00:22:41,640
to be all role play and nothing else I'd
605
00:22:40,020 --> 00:22:43,980
be like I'm not really interested
606
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:45,360
there's tons of people out there on on
607
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the internet who'd say that they would
608
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rather role play all day and that's
609
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great you know and so there is a certain
610
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element of that but I think that if
611
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you're a really good role player a good
612
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DM or GM you're going to accommodate and
613
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you're going to find ways to have fun
614
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:05,880
and do interesting things and that's
615
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,640
like honestly mostly just communication
616
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:10,679
with the people you're playing with
617
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:12,179
outside of game every week I text my
618
00:23:10,679 --> 00:23:13,799
players and say hey what did we like
619
00:23:12,179 --> 00:23:15,059
what do we not like you know we're I'm
620
00:23:13,799 --> 00:23:16,860
thinking of doing this and this next
621
00:23:15,059 --> 00:23:18,419
what do you guys want to do next and
622
00:23:16,860 --> 00:23:19,799
just that constant communication means
623
00:23:18,419 --> 00:23:22,140
we're always doing stuff that everyone
624
00:23:19,799 --> 00:23:23,400
is is excited about yeah that's
625
00:23:22,140 --> 00:23:26,460
something I'd recommend to anybody
626
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:28,740
running games is even though it feels
627
00:23:26,460 --> 00:23:30,240
weird to like tell them or like ask them
628
00:23:28,740 --> 00:23:32,280
their plans or tell them this is what's
629
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:34,080
going to happen next you don't have to
630
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,640
divulge too much like it's like a
631
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,900
trailer you know if you watch a trailer
632
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,460
for a movie and there's like little
633
00:23:36,900 --> 00:23:39,900
Snippets here and there and you get
634
00:23:38,460 --> 00:23:41,340
excited about it but it doesn't tell you
635
00:23:39,900 --> 00:23:42,240
all the weird twists and turns that are
636
00:23:41,340 --> 00:23:45,600
going to happen in the character
637
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:47,820
development and whatever else and so I
638
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,500
try to give him a trailer and then see
639
00:23:47,820 --> 00:23:51,480
if that's interesting to them and if it
640
00:23:49,500 --> 00:23:52,799
is then yeah we're gonna do that we're
641
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,720
gonna we're gonna keep exploring those
642
00:23:52,799 --> 00:23:57,600
ideas and if not then what's something
643
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:59,760
else we could try yeah I think as a
644
00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,980
maybe not preciousness is not the right
645
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,659
word but an expectation may be that when
646
00:24:01,980 --> 00:24:06,480
people start
647
00:24:03,659 --> 00:24:08,400
to play ttrpgs and then maybe ask their
648
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:11,159
friends and get their friends in that
649
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:13,200
because they're your friends that the
650
00:24:11,159 --> 00:24:16,820
game will just work magically work but
651
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:20,340
more often than not that is not the case
652
00:24:16,820 --> 00:24:22,320
for various reasons um I've started
653
00:24:20,340 --> 00:24:24,240
several I say several one or two games
654
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,220
with people I knew beforehand that I was
655
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:27,659
like yeah this isn't like we're not
656
00:24:26,220 --> 00:24:30,480
going to be on the same page and that's
657
00:24:27,659 --> 00:24:32,340
totally fine and that is what it is
658
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,779
isn't it no more to read into there that
659
00:24:32,340 --> 00:24:36,600
is just the end of that game and that's
660
00:24:33,779 --> 00:24:39,419
fine but I like having that flexibility
661
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:41,400
I think is probably one of the more or
662
00:24:39,419 --> 00:24:43,740
maybe even most important things to have
663
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:46,440
on both sides of the screen and that
664
00:24:43,740 --> 00:24:48,539
willingness to be like hey this is just
665
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,940
a slug Fest for the next four hours and
666
00:24:48,539 --> 00:24:54,840
that's I I've kind of signed up a little
667
00:24:50,940 --> 00:24:56,640
bit because I know or trust that next
668
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:58,260
week we're just gonna have a talk Fest
669
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,940
for the next four hours
670
00:24:58,260 --> 00:25:01,740
and then after that it'll be a mixed
671
00:24:59,940 --> 00:25:03,120
thing but the guys who are loving this
672
00:25:01,740 --> 00:25:04,860
slugfest I can trust them next week
673
00:25:03,120 --> 00:25:06,360
they're not going to cry about having a
674
00:25:04,860 --> 00:25:07,500
talk Fest for four hours because they
675
00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:08,820
know that I've had to sit through it
676
00:25:07,500 --> 00:25:11,880
this week and that's fine and everyone's
677
00:25:08,820 --> 00:25:15,539
adults and that's fine and we've we've
678
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:17,100
managed to build this agile game so that
679
00:25:15,539 --> 00:25:19,080
everybody can get enjoyment out of it I
680
00:25:17,100 --> 00:25:22,620
think that's can be very hard to pull
681
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:27,120
off but in many ways is that kind of uh
682
00:25:22,620 --> 00:25:28,559
that ideal it's funny uh there have been
683
00:25:27,120 --> 00:25:30,120
plenty of people on my show who who
684
00:25:28,559 --> 00:25:32,760
mentioned like they've played with some
685
00:25:30,120 --> 00:25:34,200
friends and then realized yeah you we
686
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,120
just want different things and that's
687
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:39,000
okay like we can be friends outside of d
688
00:25:36,120 --> 00:25:41,340
d but you want to murder hobo and I want
689
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:43,919
to tell a serious High fantasy story and
690
00:25:41,340 --> 00:25:46,559
or vice versa and you know and that's
691
00:25:43,919 --> 00:25:48,539
okay and honestly I think mature people
692
00:25:46,559 --> 00:25:50,880
will understand that you can still be
693
00:25:48,539 --> 00:25:53,880
friends without playing uh that specific
694
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:56,340
game together yeah yeah like one of my
695
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,600
players is very much more old school and
696
00:25:56,340 --> 00:25:59,460
into
697
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:01,559
like have you just had a gridded dungeon
698
00:25:59,460 --> 00:26:03,240
to explore with just Skelly bones to
699
00:26:01,559 --> 00:26:05,159
fight throughout it he'd okay happy
700
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:08,100
please I'll just do that for the next 20
701
00:26:05,159 --> 00:26:10,140
sessions so when I go into a chapter in
702
00:26:08,100 --> 00:26:13,260
my campaign and I'm like hey guys heads
703
00:26:10,140 --> 00:26:15,000
up this one's a goofy one so like the
704
00:26:13,260 --> 00:26:16,559
next four or five sessions some of you
705
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,059
might have to
706
00:26:16,559 --> 00:26:20,039
grin and bear it for a little bit there
707
00:26:18,059 --> 00:26:21,299
will be combat but but then they know
708
00:26:20,039 --> 00:26:23,880
that maybe in the next one there'll be a
709
00:26:21,299 --> 00:26:26,400
mega dungeon and then they'll be happy
710
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:28,140
uh so I do like to give them a little
711
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,880
heads up of like the aesthetic or the
712
00:26:28,140 --> 00:26:32,400
vibe of the next couple of sessions just
713
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:34,559
so they know going in totally totally
714
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,299
and and like you said if you were to
715
00:26:34,559 --> 00:26:37,980
kind of mix in all of the elements that
716
00:26:36,299 --> 00:26:40,559
different players like you can still do
717
00:26:37,980 --> 00:26:42,840
it across sessions there could be two or
718
00:26:40,559 --> 00:26:44,580
three in a row that don't highlight
719
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,440
specific things players want to do
720
00:26:44,580 --> 00:26:47,580
because they realize that there is
721
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,620
something they're going to want to do
722
00:26:47,580 --> 00:26:52,320
later on and and usually I think people
723
00:26:49,620 --> 00:26:54,960
are reasonable enough to go with that so
724
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:56,820
I can't I'm trying to think if I've made
725
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:59,039
any any more anecdotes about mistakes
726
00:26:56,820 --> 00:27:01,440
I've made the the play now gate is is
727
00:26:59,039 --> 00:27:03,539
the cubic gate is the most recent yeah
728
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,559
it makes me smile every time but luckily
729
00:27:03,539 --> 00:27:06,059
now where they are they've lost all
730
00:27:04,559 --> 00:27:09,360
their magic items for the time being oh
731
00:27:06,059 --> 00:27:12,480
so that's that's resolve that takes a
732
00:27:09,360 --> 00:27:14,039
brave DM to do that so that so I did
733
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:16,320
mention before the show and I've been
734
00:27:14,039 --> 00:27:19,200
streaming it recently but the current
735
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:21,720
chapter in is a very heavily inspired by
736
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:24,179
the likes of outer Wilds uh other video
737
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:27,240
games that feature a Time loop on a
738
00:27:24,179 --> 00:27:29,580
limit uh well just 20 minutes in in my
739
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:32,159
current game it's 30 minutes so that's
740
00:27:29,580 --> 00:27:34,440
that uh and also it's it's in the past
741
00:27:32,159 --> 00:27:36,480
because depending on the outcome of this
742
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,580
once they get to the end of the loop
743
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,600
when they resolve the issue it will
744
00:27:38,580 --> 00:27:42,659
impact
745
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:45,179
their future but a Time travel's
746
00:27:42,659 --> 00:27:48,299
involved B there's time Loops involved
747
00:27:45,179 --> 00:27:49,980
I had to simplify things and I think
748
00:27:48,299 --> 00:27:52,020
maybe I am talking from experience in
749
00:27:49,980 --> 00:27:53,640
this instance and I toyed the idea of
750
00:27:52,020 --> 00:27:55,679
maybe or maybe they can all keep one
751
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,840
spell maybe they could all keep one item
752
00:27:55,679 --> 00:28:00,600
and I just said no I'm gonna scorched
753
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:03,240
Earth it you're all occupying different
754
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:05,700
bodies you don't have access to like all
755
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:08,220
your de's are fifty thousand years is
756
00:28:05,700 --> 00:28:10,860
the future all your ways that you draw
757
00:28:08,220 --> 00:28:12,720
Power aren't really there yet you're
758
00:28:10,860 --> 00:28:14,880
just gonna rely on your wits alone for
759
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:17,520
this one chapter but it's it's a
760
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:20,340
constraint I've had to add because I
761
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:22,380
could not build a 20 minute recurring
762
00:28:20,340 --> 00:28:24,059
time loop with little bits and puzzles
763
00:28:22,380 --> 00:28:26,520
when they could just go I teleport to
764
00:28:24,059 --> 00:28:28,559
the last ring which I know is is player
765
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:31,500
agency and I know this this that and the
766
00:28:28,559 --> 00:28:33,840
other but for the feeling I wanted them
767
00:28:31,500 --> 00:28:36,240
to have you can only get when you've
768
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,559
worked you've you've unlocked the puzzle
769
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,020
and you kind of have to do that with
770
00:28:37,559 --> 00:28:41,220
your brain
771
00:28:39,020 --> 00:28:44,220
honestly I think it's fun to give them
772
00:28:41,220 --> 00:28:46,919
things that are inaccessible until they
773
00:28:44,220 --> 00:28:48,899
kind of solve the puzzles or or figured
774
00:28:46,919 --> 00:28:51,600
out like areas that are just too
775
00:28:48,899 --> 00:28:54,720
dangerous for whatever reason because
776
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:57,000
that makes it feel I don't know I I just
777
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,039
like the idea of it uh are you familiar
778
00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,960
with the dungeon dudes couple yes
779
00:28:59,039 --> 00:29:02,700
Canadians on YouTube yeah so they've got
780
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,620
they've got a game they've they've been
781
00:29:02,700 --> 00:29:07,320
running for a few years called The
782
00:29:04,620 --> 00:29:10,200
Dungeons of drakenheim and so I ripped
783
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:12,059
the the whole plot from it and threw it
784
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,640
into my game because it was so cool but
785
00:29:12,059 --> 00:29:16,740
this giant meteor crashes on a city and
786
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,960
there's like a bunch of weird stuff
787
00:29:16,740 --> 00:29:21,299
happening like it has this weird effect
788
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:24,539
and there's this Haze and in the haze
789
00:29:21,299 --> 00:29:27,419
it's kind of wild magic like slash
790
00:29:24,539 --> 00:29:29,760
poisonous this and so you can't go too
791
00:29:27,419 --> 00:29:31,200
far into it without getting sick or
792
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,880
losing a lot of Health points or your
793
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,620
magic stuff not working like it's
794
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:36,840
supposed to and that was fun because
795
00:29:34,620 --> 00:29:38,820
that it like they had to figure out how
796
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:40,740
to like Venture in further and further
797
00:29:38,820 --> 00:29:43,620
until they could solve the problem kind
798
00:29:40,740 --> 00:29:46,020
of kind of the same idea as as your your
799
00:29:43,620 --> 00:29:47,940
time Loop but just not on a loop but
800
00:29:46,020 --> 00:29:50,760
yeah you know magic stuff will stop stop
801
00:29:47,940 --> 00:29:54,840
working the the dreaded Compass wouldn't
802
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:57,000
work in the haze you know yeah so anyway
803
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,919
um yeah I like that idea I mean it
804
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:01,200
affected some more than others so I
805
00:29:58,919 --> 00:30:02,880
basically did the whole like wild shape
806
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,740
the same rules as wild shapes they kept
807
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:07,860
their intelligence wisdom and Charisma
808
00:30:04,740 --> 00:30:09,960
but strength decks and con just went to
809
00:30:07,860 --> 00:30:13,020
plus zero as they're occupying another
810
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:15,120
body 50 000 years in the past and ah
811
00:30:13,020 --> 00:30:18,779
some players that affected more than
812
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:20,100
other others but sorry and some some
813
00:30:18,779 --> 00:30:22,500
characters affected more than some
814
00:30:20,100 --> 00:30:24,539
players were personally more effective I
815
00:30:22,500 --> 00:30:27,480
had to tell the Goliath Blood Hunter
816
00:30:24,539 --> 00:30:29,279
Barbarian that he didn't have as two
817
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,620
great swords he didn't have his plus
818
00:30:29,279 --> 00:30:35,279
life to strength was like
819
00:30:31,620 --> 00:30:37,380
taking Old Yeller out the back that was
820
00:30:35,279 --> 00:30:38,760
that was that was tough going and I'm
821
00:30:37,380 --> 00:30:41,159
like just dude you just gotta kind of
822
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:43,919
help where you can I'm sorry but for
823
00:30:41,159 --> 00:30:49,500
this one it is what it is you'll be
824
00:30:43,919 --> 00:30:52,020
decapitating soon it's fine let's just
825
00:30:49,500 --> 00:30:53,940
but it's it's it sounds bad on paper but
826
00:30:52,020 --> 00:30:55,320
uh what I'm it is coming from a good
827
00:30:53,940 --> 00:30:57,899
place because
828
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:59,519
that process of what outer Wilds gave me
829
00:30:57,899 --> 00:31:01,200
is an experience in my life I want to
830
00:30:59,519 --> 00:31:03,179
recreate for other people and I want
831
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,279
them to be like wow we unlocked this
832
00:31:03,179 --> 00:31:06,419
thing we got to the end and it was all
833
00:31:05,279 --> 00:31:08,460
these other little bits were working
834
00:31:06,419 --> 00:31:10,860
together and that's what I want them to
835
00:31:08,460 --> 00:31:12,600
achieve and if they can just kill people
836
00:31:10,860 --> 00:31:15,840
by looking at them and teleport and fly
837
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:18,360
around it's it's not gonna be the same
838
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:20,820
true true so perhaps yeah that was a way
839
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,740
of me learning that from what we talked
840
00:31:20,820 --> 00:31:24,240
about before with The Golden Compass
841
00:31:22,740 --> 00:31:25,620
that I was like you know what there's
842
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,039
gonna there's gonna be something the
843
00:31:25,620 --> 00:31:31,019
only way I can really secure this
844
00:31:28,039 --> 00:31:32,700
self-contained this biome that's in a
845
00:31:31,019 --> 00:31:35,940
little self-contained environment was
846
00:31:32,700 --> 00:31:37,500
just like nope nothing wits only and the
847
00:31:35,940 --> 00:31:39,720
only way we can do wits only is if we
848
00:31:37,500 --> 00:31:43,029
there's a gate here
849
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,029
[Music]
850
00:31:45,590 --> 00:31:50,399
[Music]
851
00:31:48,260 --> 00:31:53,100
we talked a lot about
852
00:31:50,399 --> 00:31:55,740
um the dming side of things which is to
853
00:31:53,100 --> 00:31:57,659
be expected but both of the halves we've
854
00:31:55,740 --> 00:31:59,760
talked about so far is in the what what
855
00:31:57,659 --> 00:32:01,799
are the mistakes and and the wire
856
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,360
they're made I think could potentially
857
00:32:01,799 --> 00:32:06,899
be more interesting if you look at both
858
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:09,179
player and their characters so I'll let
859
00:32:06,899 --> 00:32:11,700
Adidas Choice as to which path you want
860
00:32:09,179 --> 00:32:13,260
to go down but it is a Quantum podcast
861
00:32:11,700 --> 00:32:13,690
in that we're going to get to both in
862
00:32:13,260 --> 00:32:15,539
the end anyway
863
00:32:13,690 --> 00:32:18,000
[Laughter]
864
00:32:15,539 --> 00:32:20,039
so player mistakes is in I'm sitting at
865
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:22,919
a table and I've done something stupid
866
00:32:20,039 --> 00:32:25,260
or characters mistakes in the universe
867
00:32:22,919 --> 00:32:27,179
which I think will be on paper similar
868
00:32:25,260 --> 00:32:29,519
but I think when we start talking about
869
00:32:27,179 --> 00:32:32,940
it it's going to get the nuances will
870
00:32:29,519 --> 00:32:36,120
reveal themselves yeah uh
871
00:32:32,940 --> 00:32:39,179
uh I like to think that I am a good
872
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:40,080
player and that I go along with it and I
873
00:32:39,179 --> 00:32:42,179
I
874
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:46,140
am a good team player and give other
875
00:32:42,179 --> 00:32:49,559
people a moment to shine but I will
876
00:32:46,140 --> 00:32:51,600
admit that I do at times get a little
877
00:32:49,559 --> 00:32:54,720
bit of main character syndrome where I'm
878
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:57,480
like oh I'm gonna write this backstory
879
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,519
so that it's about me and I'm gonna you
880
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:02,700
know like this this moment is a time for
881
00:32:59,519 --> 00:33:05,640
me to shine and uh so I I definitely do
882
00:33:02,700 --> 00:33:08,340
that and I try not to and it consciously
883
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:12,419
you know I know I do it and so I try to
884
00:33:08,340 --> 00:33:14,580
avoid it because it can be annoying or
885
00:33:12,419 --> 00:33:17,059
or Worse to other players you're playing
886
00:33:14,580 --> 00:33:20,580
with um so that is a big one for me
887
00:33:17,059 --> 00:33:23,640
personally that I know happens I think
888
00:33:20,580 --> 00:33:24,980
another thing that can be tricky is
889
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:28,140
players
890
00:33:24,980 --> 00:33:30,419
who see another player doing something
891
00:33:28,140 --> 00:33:33,179
cool and say oh I want to do that too
892
00:33:30,419 --> 00:33:36,000
and like figure out a way to get an item
893
00:33:33,179 --> 00:33:38,039
or or add some abilities or something to
894
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:41,279
do that same thing and then kind of like
895
00:33:38,039 --> 00:33:42,740
take away that care characters moments
896
00:33:41,279 --> 00:33:46,740
of shine
897
00:33:42,740 --> 00:33:49,500
so for instance if you had
898
00:33:46,740 --> 00:33:51,840
uh I don't know I guess just like for a
899
00:33:49,500 --> 00:33:53,640
simple example you've got one character
900
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,559
who's kind of roguish who's good at
901
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:58,679
picking locks and then another character
902
00:33:55,559 --> 00:34:00,960
like finds a way to bypass locks like oh
903
00:33:58,679 --> 00:34:02,640
actually I'm gonna like just turn into a
904
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,260
bug as a druid and like go under every
905
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:07,080
single locked door so we don't need you
906
00:34:04,260 --> 00:34:08,639
to unlock doors anymore and that's kind
907
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:11,399
of sad and I think that that's something
908
00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:14,700
that that players can do too is is uh
909
00:34:11,399 --> 00:34:18,179
instead of realizing hey I've got x y
910
00:34:14,700 --> 00:34:19,679
and Zed that I am good at and this
911
00:34:18,179 --> 00:34:21,839
player has a b and c that they are good
912
00:34:19,679 --> 00:34:24,119
at and we should you know we should work
913
00:34:21,839 --> 00:34:25,500
together as a team and I should focus on
914
00:34:24,119 --> 00:34:27,659
these things because it's kind of what
915
00:34:25,500 --> 00:34:29,820
my players built to do or whatever but
916
00:34:27,659 --> 00:34:33,240
instead like see someone having fun and
917
00:34:29,820 --> 00:34:36,720
want to like also do that thing and then
918
00:34:33,240 --> 00:34:39,659
eventually uh one player might not feel
919
00:34:36,720 --> 00:34:41,099
useless but like feel less helpful and
920
00:34:39,659 --> 00:34:42,720
and feel like they're getting less out
921
00:34:41,099 --> 00:34:44,339
of the game because they don't get to do
922
00:34:42,720 --> 00:34:46,139
the thing that they built their
923
00:34:44,339 --> 00:34:49,079
character for anymore uh that's a big
924
00:34:46,139 --> 00:34:51,960
thing I've seen happen you know on on
925
00:34:49,079 --> 00:34:53,520
like streams and podcasts even like you
926
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,020
can kind of tell it's happening
927
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,180
um but yeah in games I've played in
928
00:34:55,020 --> 00:34:59,520
games I've observed yeah yeah I know
929
00:34:57,180 --> 00:35:01,740
that that is that self-aware is
930
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:04,980
self-awareness basically about the table
931
00:35:01,740 --> 00:35:07,020
being a active participant you know
932
00:35:04,980 --> 00:35:09,060
collaborating and engaging but having
933
00:35:07,020 --> 00:35:10,980
the self-awareness to be like no I know
934
00:35:09,060 --> 00:35:12,240
that person sitting across the table for
935
00:35:10,980 --> 00:35:13,560
me this is this that's the thing they
936
00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:15,000
get the enjoyment out of and I don't
937
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,980
want to take that away from them even
938
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:19,200
though I could trivialize it and maybe
939
00:35:16,980 --> 00:35:21,540
that would be what this adventuring
940
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,740
party would do but in reality you're not
941
00:35:21,540 --> 00:35:24,060
an adventuring party you're a bunch of
942
00:35:22,740 --> 00:35:26,760
friends sitting around the table right
943
00:35:24,060 --> 00:35:28,440
so you know you let them have their
944
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:31,020
moment and it is so like again that lock
945
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:33,839
picking thing can be so trivialized
946
00:35:31,020 --> 00:35:36,060
later on with either spells or by wild
947
00:35:33,839 --> 00:35:37,980
shaping is a classic one right miss you
948
00:35:36,060 --> 00:35:40,800
know missed form or whatever or just
949
00:35:37,980 --> 00:35:42,119
turning the chest into water what you
950
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,460
know this the spell is just basically
951
00:35:42,119 --> 00:35:46,680
trivialize 80 of everything else in the
952
00:35:44,460 --> 00:35:50,280
game it's true you know like Arcanine
953
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:52,800
you can just see through as well as
954
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:55,680
relatively low level spell but knowing
955
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:58,380
to be like I'll just be quiet like being
956
00:35:55,680 --> 00:36:00,839
quiet is probably an underrated which
957
00:35:58,380 --> 00:36:02,460
sounds counter-intuitive in a game about
958
00:36:00,839 --> 00:36:04,200
telling stories
959
00:36:02,460 --> 00:36:06,060
but when you have a certain number of
960
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:08,520
players around the table there is always
961
00:36:06,060 --> 00:36:10,260
opportunity to just be quiet and have
962
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:12,359
that self-awareness to be like I'm not
963
00:36:10,260 --> 00:36:14,700
this bit isn't for me and I will
964
00:36:12,359 --> 00:36:17,940
appreciate that and take a step back
965
00:36:14,700 --> 00:36:19,079
it's so again very hard to to know where
966
00:36:17,940 --> 00:36:21,660
that line is
967
00:36:19,079 --> 00:36:23,280
but it is a very good line once you've
968
00:36:21,660 --> 00:36:25,099
once you can find it out you're you're
969
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:28,380
laughing I think yeah
970
00:36:25,099 --> 00:36:30,180
I'm working toward it slowly as well uh
971
00:36:28,380 --> 00:36:32,099
I feel like I'm at the point where I'm
972
00:36:30,180 --> 00:36:34,380
good at in character prodding someone
973
00:36:32,099 --> 00:36:36,420
else like hey this is this is something
974
00:36:34,380 --> 00:36:38,040
you should try but you're right instead
975
00:36:36,420 --> 00:36:39,839
it'd be even better to just like sit
976
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,940
there and and not say anything and then
977
00:36:39,839 --> 00:36:45,359
just let them to speak up and have their
978
00:36:41,940 --> 00:36:48,300
moment so someday I'll get there
979
00:36:45,359 --> 00:36:49,619
yeah yeah is is a tricky one obviously
980
00:36:48,300 --> 00:36:52,140
to tie it back into what we're talking
981
00:36:49,619 --> 00:36:53,820
about before again that is a DM I've
982
00:36:52,140 --> 00:36:56,579
been paranoid of that since day one is a
983
00:36:53,820 --> 00:36:59,400
DM to be like it's very easy to give a
984
00:36:56,579 --> 00:37:02,099
magical item to maybe not the Rogue that
985
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:05,579
can do unpicking or something like that
986
00:37:02,099 --> 00:37:07,079
and then you go oh [ __ ] because now the
987
00:37:05,579 --> 00:37:09,839
wizard can just
988
00:37:07,079 --> 00:37:11,520
do the unlocking and you're like oh
989
00:37:09,839 --> 00:37:12,660
really shouldn't have given them that
990
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,160
magic item and then you're in that
991
00:37:12,660 --> 00:37:15,960
awkward position of do I take it away or
992
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:18,420
do I Nerf it or we'll do blah blah blah
993
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:21,380
blah so yeah that's not stepping on
994
00:37:18,420 --> 00:37:24,540
other people's toes is tricky here
995
00:37:21,380 --> 00:37:27,839
yeah it is it is like you said it's a
996
00:37:24,540 --> 00:37:30,060
lot of awareness a lot of um balancing
997
00:37:27,839 --> 00:37:31,619
and and uh
998
00:37:30,060 --> 00:37:34,680
making sure that everybody is having
999
00:37:31,619 --> 00:37:36,359
their fun so yeah it's definitely a
1000
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:39,540
mistake that I see though I think I
1001
00:37:36,359 --> 00:37:41,940
think I my easy way of getting around
1002
00:37:39,540 --> 00:37:44,579
that as I'm currently playing a wizard
1003
00:37:41,940 --> 00:37:46,740
in my main campaign level 11 now so
1004
00:37:44,579 --> 00:37:47,820
there are a lot of things that I'm
1005
00:37:46,740 --> 00:37:50,940
already
1006
00:37:47,820 --> 00:37:52,859
frustrating the DM enough I just didn't
1007
00:37:50,940 --> 00:37:54,660
come back with bits and Bobs and I'm
1008
00:37:52,859 --> 00:37:57,599
playing him cronomancy which I think is
1009
00:37:54,660 --> 00:38:00,540
from will it Mount right yes so turning
1010
00:37:57,599 --> 00:38:01,920
those crits off maybe and turning back
1011
00:38:00,540 --> 00:38:04,680
time and just teleporting people away
1012
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:07,020
and stuff is already I can see the veins
1013
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:10,200
in my DMs School head when I'm like
1014
00:38:07,020 --> 00:38:13,380
chronal shift no not today thank you is
1015
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:15,900
already getting him getting him annoyed
1016
00:38:13,380 --> 00:38:17,940
I've got to interject here I I played
1017
00:38:15,900 --> 00:38:19,500
this same kind of wizard build last
1018
00:38:17,940 --> 00:38:21,780
summer for that wild Mount game we
1019
00:38:19,500 --> 00:38:23,820
played oh yeah uh and my DM even home
1020
00:38:21,780 --> 00:38:25,560
brewed me an item kind of like Bardock
1021
00:38:23,820 --> 00:38:28,079
inspiration where I could add or just
1022
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:30,720
subtract a D6 from a roll three times a
1023
00:38:28,079 --> 00:38:34,320
day so and then I took the lucky feat so
1024
00:38:30,720 --> 00:38:37,020
I had lucky I had three portents and
1025
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:39,960
then I had the three uses of that D6 to
1026
00:38:37,020 --> 00:38:42,180
add or subtract and so if we had like
1027
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:44,640
one big boss battle I had nine different
1028
00:38:42,180 --> 00:38:47,400
ways to to ruin his day on any given
1029
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:48,780
roll and I mean he did it himself and he
1030
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,300
knew it was gonna be a high level game
1031
00:38:48,780 --> 00:38:54,119
and so the stuff we fought was like you
1032
00:38:51,300 --> 00:38:57,780
know cr20 cr25 even if we were just a
1033
00:38:54,119 --> 00:38:59,880
party of level 14s because we had this
1034
00:38:57,780 --> 00:39:02,420
the Firepower to to contend with those
1035
00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:05,760
kinds of things but oh man it's so fun
1036
00:39:02,420 --> 00:39:08,099
the corona fancy stuff yeah I want to
1037
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:10,140
build a hardcore like divination wizard
1038
00:39:08,099 --> 00:39:14,000
with lucky and everything just to be
1039
00:39:10,140 --> 00:39:16,619
that Captain T guy capital G yeah just
1040
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:18,060
to really just live that life for just a
1041
00:39:16,619 --> 00:39:19,980
couple of sessions
1042
00:39:18,060 --> 00:39:22,079
so yeah even it like the way I get
1043
00:39:19,980 --> 00:39:26,220
around that as a wizard with chronomancy
1044
00:39:22,079 --> 00:39:28,680
stuff is to be not not standoffish just
1045
00:39:26,220 --> 00:39:29,880
not a very nice like I'm not I don't
1046
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,200
want to help everybody all the time and
1047
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:33,660
I don't want to be putting myself in
1048
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,880
danger so that's that's how he gets out
1049
00:39:33,660 --> 00:39:37,500
of being the person that's always trying
1050
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,420
to win the situation because he's like
1051
00:39:37,500 --> 00:39:41,880
no man I don't want to do that I don't
1052
00:39:39,420 --> 00:39:43,200
want to go in the dirty dungeon or I
1053
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,180
don't want to do this in the other so
1054
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:47,220
I'll just stay at the back please you
1055
00:39:45,180 --> 00:39:49,740
guys can do the the manual labor at the
1056
00:39:47,220 --> 00:39:52,440
front like his his whole thing is like
1057
00:39:49,740 --> 00:39:53,640
arrogant I'm better than you so I didn't
1058
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:56,760
even need to do this kind of stuff
1059
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:59,700
that's my crutch my very easy way of
1060
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:02,760
getting out of trying to be in the light
1061
00:39:59,700 --> 00:40:04,200
the whole time which which can work and
1062
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,300
uh yeah just trying to bury your nose in
1063
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,819
books which is easier for a wizard I
1064
00:40:06,300 --> 00:40:10,380
suppose than
1065
00:40:07,819 --> 00:40:12,119
perhaps other classes yeah that's
1066
00:40:10,380 --> 00:40:14,280
perfect
1067
00:40:12,119 --> 00:40:17,220
so that's we yeah I guess that that's
1068
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:18,359
more yeah player mistakes and I think
1069
00:40:17,220 --> 00:40:20,819
what we've talked about has probably
1070
00:40:18,359 --> 00:40:23,160
covered many you know that perito about
1071
00:40:20,819 --> 00:40:24,420
80 of the big the big ones which is to
1072
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,579
say like
1073
00:40:24,420 --> 00:40:28,440
being the center of attention and taking
1074
00:40:26,579 --> 00:40:30,420
the fun away from other players what
1075
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,819
about if we if we twist it a little bit
1076
00:40:30,420 --> 00:40:34,319
and think about like and again this is
1077
00:40:32,819 --> 00:40:35,640
crossing muddying the walls between
1078
00:40:34,319 --> 00:40:37,440
player and character which is an
1079
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:40,380
interesting discussion and of itself but
1080
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:42,900
in terms of like knowing the the world
1081
00:40:40,380 --> 00:40:45,000
or like solving puzzles is one example
1082
00:40:42,900 --> 00:40:47,040
but like knowing what to do next and
1083
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,420
trying to piece together the law and the
1084
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:50,000
history because you're going to talk
1085
00:40:48,420 --> 00:40:53,460
about that player character's divide
1086
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:55,380
which is an aspect of we haven't played
1087
00:40:53,460 --> 00:40:57,960
for four weeks but it's been three
1088
00:40:55,380 --> 00:41:01,140
seconds for my characters there's a lot
1089
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:02,880
of stuff in there which can lead to ah
1090
00:41:01,140 --> 00:41:04,980
we'll just go through the red door and
1091
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,660
there's a DM I'll be like no four weeks
1092
00:41:04,980 --> 00:41:08,160
ago I told you the red door is the death
1093
00:41:06,660 --> 00:41:10,140
door and now you're just gonna walk
1094
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:12,420
straight through and make a horrible
1095
00:41:10,140 --> 00:41:16,099
mistake like
1096
00:41:12,420 --> 00:41:18,000
there's a lot in what I've just said
1097
00:41:16,099 --> 00:41:20,520
yeah I don't know if you've got any
1098
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:23,119
thoughts or experience on trying to
1099
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:26,280
mitigate going through the death door
1100
00:41:23,119 --> 00:41:29,040
yeah uh a couple of things number one
1101
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:30,960
sounds like meta gaming to me is kind of
1102
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:32,880
part and parcel of what you're talking
1103
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,680
about just a little bit like knowing
1104
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,420
stuff beforehand or knowing too much and
1105
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:38,220
then using your personal knowledge that
1106
00:41:36,420 --> 00:41:40,619
your player or your character may not
1107
00:41:38,220 --> 00:41:42,240
have or vice versa but yeah the the
1108
00:41:40,619 --> 00:41:45,480
whole like it's been a while and
1109
00:41:42,240 --> 00:41:49,440
therefore they have forgotten things to
1110
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:52,260
help mitigate that I usually either via
1111
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:54,720
text or or as we start playing like do a
1112
00:41:52,260 --> 00:41:56,819
session recap and try to make sure that
1113
00:41:54,720 --> 00:42:00,780
I hit specific points that they should
1114
00:41:56,819 --> 00:42:03,119
remember or would remember having or or
1115
00:42:00,780 --> 00:42:04,920
knowing that it has been only a second
1116
00:42:03,119 --> 00:42:06,119
since we like cut off and then we've
1117
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,700
started again
1118
00:42:06,119 --> 00:42:10,980
so that helps that part and you get a
1119
00:42:08,700 --> 00:42:12,960
lot of that oh oh yeah you know and
1120
00:42:10,980 --> 00:42:14,460
that's that's just kind of what I do
1121
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:16,859
because I I don't really feel like
1122
00:42:14,460 --> 00:42:18,540
playing gotcha yeah as much like it's
1123
00:42:16,859 --> 00:42:20,940
fun to trick your players here and there
1124
00:42:18,540 --> 00:42:23,520
or to throw them curveballs so to speak
1125
00:42:20,940 --> 00:42:26,640
that that they aren't expecting um but I
1126
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:28,800
don't intentionally forget or not remind
1127
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:30,960
them of stuff that they would remember
1128
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:34,200
just because I want to see them squirm
1129
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:36,359
later uh that's not really my style but
1130
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:38,700
uh yeah I guess that's that's what I do
1131
00:42:36,359 --> 00:42:40,619
usually is is like Recaps or or text
1132
00:42:38,700 --> 00:42:42,839
threads to to make sure everybody's on
1133
00:42:40,619 --> 00:42:44,760
the same page as we're starting up yeah
1134
00:42:42,839 --> 00:42:46,500
anyway that's that's kind of what I do
1135
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,880
I've just got this image in my head now
1136
00:42:46,500 --> 00:42:50,040
of being like by the way guys remember
1137
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:51,480
when we played last time the NPC told
1138
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,520
you that the red door is the death door
1139
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,780
anyway uh we're back in the game what
1140
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,180
does anyone want to do I want to go
1141
00:42:54,780 --> 00:42:58,380
through the red door okay that then
1142
00:42:57,180 --> 00:43:00,420
you'd be like yeah okay you guys are
1143
00:42:58,380 --> 00:43:03,000
gonna make a mistake if they want to do
1144
00:43:00,420 --> 00:43:04,500
it then you you let them right but they
1145
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,819
so long as they have all of the
1146
00:43:04,500 --> 00:43:09,440
information and make an informed
1147
00:43:05,819 --> 00:43:12,839
decision yeah you uh can hold them to it
1148
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:15,480
yep that's why I yeah I also do I've
1149
00:43:12,839 --> 00:43:17,640
been a bit bad actually I I usually do
1150
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:18,599
my recaps as soon as possible after the
1151
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,700
previous session because then it's
1152
00:43:18,599 --> 00:43:22,260
really fresh in my memory and yes today
1153
00:43:20,700 --> 00:43:23,880
I was like oh crap I'm actually running
1154
00:43:22,260 --> 00:43:25,980
on Tuesday and haven't got around to it
1155
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:27,780
yet so that's what my players which kind
1156
00:43:25,980 --> 00:43:29,339
of defeats the purpose a little bit but
1157
00:43:27,780 --> 00:43:31,079
yeah one guy was like oh yes here's
1158
00:43:29,339 --> 00:43:34,319
here's what we did in these the
1159
00:43:31,079 --> 00:43:37,440
iterations yeah sorry I actually like
1160
00:43:34,319 --> 00:43:39,359
letting my players do Recaps because it
1161
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:41,339
reminds me what they think is important
1162
00:43:39,359 --> 00:43:42,900
and what they have forgotten because I
1163
00:43:41,339 --> 00:43:45,060
can remind them of the stuff that they
1164
00:43:42,900 --> 00:43:46,980
should remember but also if they've
1165
00:43:45,060 --> 00:43:49,260
focused in on a few things that I didn't
1166
00:43:46,980 --> 00:43:51,720
think were as big a deal then I make
1167
00:43:49,260 --> 00:43:53,640
those things a big deal I guess and that
1168
00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:55,079
that kind of helps me like focus on the
1169
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:57,420
stuff they found more interesting or fun
1170
00:43:55,079 --> 00:43:59,280
but I mean obviously to each their own
1171
00:43:57,420 --> 00:44:00,780
yeah there's pros and cons to both
1172
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:02,280
methods and I have tried both methods
1173
00:44:00,780 --> 00:44:04,020
before and this is the one that's
1174
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,460
happened it happened to be settled on
1175
00:44:04,020 --> 00:44:07,200
for this game I think most of the guys
1176
00:44:05,460 --> 00:44:09,839
are happy with it because most of them
1177
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:12,300
don't take any notes and sometimes
1178
00:44:09,839 --> 00:44:14,040
they're there just to have a night of
1179
00:44:12,300 --> 00:44:16,140
fun and we'll forget about it as soon as
1180
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,640
the Discord is closed and that's fine I
1181
00:44:16,140 --> 00:44:19,619
don't begrudge them for that but they
1182
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,960
need at least somebody who knows what
1183
00:44:19,619 --> 00:44:23,099
the hell is happening
1184
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,300
that's true it may as well be me in this
1185
00:44:23,099 --> 00:44:25,800
instance
1186
00:44:24,300 --> 00:44:28,260
um
1187
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:30,359
so that's that's fine and that does that
1188
00:44:28,260 --> 00:44:31,920
does save them it's actually quite fun
1189
00:44:30,359 --> 00:44:33,780
in a way I know we're digressing a
1190
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:36,240
little bit but from at one of the pros
1191
00:44:33,780 --> 00:44:38,880
of the DM or at least download doing it
1192
00:44:36,240 --> 00:44:42,000
is it is quite fun for me to Pepper in
1193
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:44,220
like the red door as the death door they
1194
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,660
told you that anyway then you went on to
1195
00:44:44,220 --> 00:44:48,599
do this and do that because then I've
1196
00:44:45,660 --> 00:44:50,339
got you know hands up you know so if you
1197
00:44:48,599 --> 00:44:52,079
do it then that's on you because I've
1198
00:44:50,339 --> 00:44:53,760
told you but then also throw in other
1199
00:44:52,079 --> 00:44:55,560
bits that are maybe red not red herrings
1200
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,900
but like other tidbits of information
1201
00:44:55,560 --> 00:45:00,180
that aren't the red door is a death door
1202
00:44:57,900 --> 00:45:02,819
but like oh and they also told you that
1203
00:45:00,180 --> 00:45:05,760
on Tuesdays is the day they bake the
1204
00:45:02,819 --> 00:45:07,859
bread and then it's just to fill it out
1205
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,060
a little bit and to kind of if there is
1206
00:45:07,859 --> 00:45:10,200
something in there that was a big piece
1207
00:45:09,060 --> 00:45:11,880
of information but they might not know
1208
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,680
it yet you can kind of
1209
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:16,560
pepper it in with so you don't you don't
1210
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:18,180
only say Tuesday Mornings the bread day
1211
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:20,400
wink
1212
00:45:18,180 --> 00:45:22,920
you might also want to say Thursdays The
1213
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:25,859
Flower Day and then it's they've got a
1214
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:28,740
50 50. so it's kind of fun to weave a
1215
00:45:25,859 --> 00:45:31,140
all the informations in there in a way
1216
00:45:28,740 --> 00:45:34,440
that makes it interesting to hear
1217
00:45:31,140 --> 00:45:35,760
while not giving the game away for what
1218
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,859
they should have picked up on last week
1219
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:40,500
is an interesting little puzzle for me
1220
00:45:37,859 --> 00:45:42,020
to unpick usually 10 minutes before the
1221
00:45:40,500 --> 00:45:44,040
episode starts
1222
00:45:42,020 --> 00:45:47,280
because I'm an idiot and leave it too
1223
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:49,440
late yeah it is so as far as like player
1224
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:51,660
meta gaming and stuff then uh have you
1225
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:53,700
had a lot of issues with it kind of
1226
00:45:51,660 --> 00:45:56,579
talking about player mistakes again
1227
00:45:53,700 --> 00:45:58,440
um or are your players pretty pretty
1228
00:45:56,579 --> 00:46:00,960
good about it uh what have you kind of
1229
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:03,380
experienced slash have you met a game as
1230
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,380
a player
1231
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:08,579
you pride yourself or like to think
1232
00:46:07,079 --> 00:46:12,060
you're a good player and in the same way
1233
00:46:08,579 --> 00:46:15,599
I also like think of myself as being
1234
00:46:12,060 --> 00:46:17,099
like no super I try and ironically I
1235
00:46:15,599 --> 00:46:18,839
probably swing the pendulum too far the
1236
00:46:17,099 --> 00:46:21,540
other way because I'm so far trying to
1237
00:46:18,839 --> 00:46:23,460
remove myself from any knowledge that I
1238
00:46:21,540 --> 00:46:25,380
might end up making more stupider
1239
00:46:23,460 --> 00:46:26,880
decision as my character would would
1240
00:46:25,380 --> 00:46:29,099
maybe have made if I'd had no
1241
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:32,700
information whatsoever yeah I'm just
1242
00:46:29,099 --> 00:46:34,440
very hyper aware that I know a lot
1243
00:46:32,700 --> 00:46:37,079
versus the guy that's sitting next to me
1244
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:39,839
so I have to kind of counter you know
1245
00:46:37,079 --> 00:46:41,339
adjust accordingly as it goes on but
1246
00:46:39,839 --> 00:46:42,359
then in a way that makes when they do
1247
00:46:41,339 --> 00:46:44,339
bring in a creature that I'm not
1248
00:46:42,359 --> 00:46:45,960
familiar with even better because I'm
1249
00:46:44,339 --> 00:46:47,579
like hey well this is a genuinely new
1250
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,359
experience and I generally don't have
1251
00:46:47,579 --> 00:46:50,819
any
1252
00:46:48,359 --> 00:46:53,400
I'm completely operating ad-lib here
1253
00:46:50,819 --> 00:46:55,560
that's good personally no I don't tend
1254
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:58,260
to I I think it's quite easy for me to
1255
00:46:55,560 --> 00:47:00,839
embody my my character or make a role
1256
00:46:58,260 --> 00:47:02,339
and then face that myth from experience
1257
00:47:00,839 --> 00:47:03,599
or from being on the receiving end of it
1258
00:47:02,339 --> 00:47:07,079
as a DM
1259
00:47:03,599 --> 00:47:09,359
as dming most of the guys at the six
1260
00:47:07,079 --> 00:47:11,460
players four were completely brand
1261
00:47:09,359 --> 00:47:13,440
spanking new so they wouldn't even know
1262
00:47:11,460 --> 00:47:15,119
what the term meta gaming is
1263
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,440
which is to say they did it a lot
1264
00:47:15,119 --> 00:47:18,480
because they didn't even know it was a
1265
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:20,040
thing that maybe you shouldn't do maybe
1266
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:22,020
you should do maybe it's this bad thing
1267
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:24,300
we shouldn't be doing it was just
1268
00:47:22,020 --> 00:47:26,220
I think we do and then I have to be like
1269
00:47:24,300 --> 00:47:27,599
hold on a minute guys would you would
1270
00:47:26,220 --> 00:47:31,140
your character know that and they're
1271
00:47:27,599 --> 00:47:33,000
like no no and I'm like okay well
1272
00:47:31,140 --> 00:47:33,839
maybe not in this instance so what would
1273
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,040
you do if you didn't have that
1274
00:47:33,839 --> 00:47:37,200
information there was there was a little
1275
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:39,780
bit of that for the first you know 10 to
1276
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:42,599
15 sessions they won't mind me saying as
1277
00:47:39,780 --> 00:47:45,660
they really got to grips with what a
1278
00:47:42,599 --> 00:47:49,260
ttrpg is and the implications of trying
1279
00:47:45,660 --> 00:47:51,300
to roleplay is somebody who doesn't have
1280
00:47:49,260 --> 00:47:52,920
all the information or in some cases has
1281
00:47:51,300 --> 00:47:55,079
more information which is actually the
1282
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:57,300
trickier question to answer sometimes is
1283
00:47:55,079 --> 00:48:00,000
but what would my character know about
1284
00:47:57,300 --> 00:48:01,559
this yeah weird alien subject that my
1285
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:04,440
brain can't even really
1286
00:48:01,559 --> 00:48:06,480
equate to real life yeah one of my
1287
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:09,660
players uh his he's like from the
1288
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:11,339
feywild and so constantly it's like well
1289
00:48:09,660 --> 00:48:13,440
what would I have encountered this stuff
1290
00:48:11,339 --> 00:48:15,599
like in my interplanar Wars experience
1291
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:18,119
and I'm like I don't know you know would
1292
00:48:15,599 --> 00:48:21,059
you have it it's it's hard to it's hard
1293
00:48:18,119 --> 00:48:23,760
to decide sometimes yeah but it becomes
1294
00:48:21,059 --> 00:48:26,099
like a Ganondorf link tennis match of
1295
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:27,780
like but would you know well maybe but
1296
00:48:26,099 --> 00:48:28,920
how would you have known well maybe if I
1297
00:48:27,780 --> 00:48:31,260
did this yeah but you wouldn't really
1298
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:32,880
have done that and then it's like how
1299
00:48:31,260 --> 00:48:34,920
deep down that rabbit oh do you want to
1300
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:36,480
go as you've got just four people in the
1301
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,579
audience now just watching the two of
1302
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:40,800
you trying to work out whether that
1303
00:48:38,579 --> 00:48:42,359
knowledge is there or not and like
1304
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,640
looking at their watches going this is
1305
00:48:42,359 --> 00:48:47,160
game time what are we doing yeah exactly
1306
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:49,200
exactly yeah I do I do have another
1307
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:51,720
inventive player who's always trying to
1308
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:53,460
do weird and wacky new things and now
1309
00:48:51,720 --> 00:48:55,619
funnily enough is playing in a ladder in
1310
00:48:53,460 --> 00:48:57,660
so again from the Fey worlds it was all
1311
00:48:55,619 --> 00:48:59,579
very much same thing yeah is this what
1312
00:48:57,660 --> 00:49:02,160
I've experienced this or time moves
1313
00:48:59,579 --> 00:49:05,040
differently so do I perceive this way
1314
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:07,859
and I kind of Welcome those questions
1315
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:08,640
because it tests me as a DM and makes me
1316
00:49:07,859 --> 00:49:10,559
think
1317
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:12,119
in new ways that I would never have
1318
00:49:10,559 --> 00:49:15,480
thought of before
1319
00:49:12,119 --> 00:49:18,300
but I've never fortunately never been a
1320
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:20,400
victim of a malicious meta gaming that
1321
00:49:18,300 --> 00:49:23,280
is to say meta gaming with intent to
1322
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:24,260
deceive that's could be a lawyer
1323
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:27,359
um
1324
00:49:24,260 --> 00:49:30,900
a rules lawyer so now it's only ever
1325
00:49:27,359 --> 00:49:32,460
been accidental like oh we know what
1326
00:49:30,900 --> 00:49:33,780
downloads trying to do here winky face
1327
00:49:32,460 --> 00:49:35,339
and I've gone yeah
1328
00:49:33,780 --> 00:49:37,040
but can you meet me halfway and pretend
1329
00:49:35,339 --> 00:49:40,319
you don't
1330
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:41,700
yeah yeah luckily most of my players are
1331
00:49:40,319 --> 00:49:44,700
brand new as well
1332
00:49:41,700 --> 00:49:47,040
um so it hasn't been too big of an issue
1333
00:49:44,700 --> 00:49:49,200
but I've definitely like again I've seen
1334
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,940
it in streams and podcasts and and stuff
1335
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:53,940
that I've consumed like
1336
00:49:50,940 --> 00:49:55,740
that seems like a little metagamy to me
1337
00:49:53,940 --> 00:50:00,180
um so it's just funny to see what people
1338
00:49:55,740 --> 00:50:01,260
try to get away with yeah I I I'm very
1339
00:50:00,180 --> 00:50:02,520
glad I'm talking to you about this
1340
00:50:01,260 --> 00:50:04,800
because there is
1341
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:06,420
when you do podcasts like we do Apple
1342
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:08,640
cars or play a lot
1343
00:50:06,420 --> 00:50:10,559
some point there is that level of
1344
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:12,180
experience where you can spot those kind
1345
00:50:10,559 --> 00:50:13,619
of things and in games I've played with
1346
00:50:12,180 --> 00:50:16,800
I've been looked across the table and
1347
00:50:13,619 --> 00:50:18,540
been like that's that's probably pushing
1348
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:20,520
it a little bit or like would you really
1349
00:50:18,540 --> 00:50:21,720
be doing that and it's not my place to
1350
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,700
say and that's one of the things when
1351
00:50:21,720 --> 00:50:26,400
I'm a player I don't care so DM's job oh
1352
00:50:23,700 --> 00:50:27,480
this is my night off like the DM could
1353
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:30,240
do with that
1354
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:33,119
um but you do gain that awareness of
1355
00:50:30,240 --> 00:50:35,160
spotting those signs sometimes of of
1356
00:50:33,119 --> 00:50:36,780
like there's just this is that so this
1357
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:38,579
is the way the way it's pronounced the
1358
00:50:36,780 --> 00:50:42,240
words that they've said there's just a
1359
00:50:38,579 --> 00:50:44,520
little something there uh but they're
1360
00:50:42,240 --> 00:50:46,920
built into that but no no fortune
1361
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:50,339
fortunately not I'm trying to think what
1362
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:51,900
I really wanted to get at here was why
1363
00:50:50,339 --> 00:50:54,599
the players and all their characters
1364
00:50:51,900 --> 00:50:56,400
will will make mistakes and it may be
1365
00:50:54,599 --> 00:50:59,460
again what my partner said and it made
1366
00:50:56,400 --> 00:51:01,980
me think like is it is it a lack of
1367
00:50:59,460 --> 00:51:04,800
knowledge is it a lack of understanding
1368
00:51:01,980 --> 00:51:06,540
of the constraints of the game World an
1369
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:08,040
easy one to talk about is like Puzzles
1370
00:51:06,540 --> 00:51:10,559
and riddles
1371
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:13,319
I think we can all empathize with DMS
1372
00:51:10,559 --> 00:51:14,940
being like Oh well the players just why
1373
00:51:13,319 --> 00:51:15,900
can't they resolve this riddle for a
1374
00:51:14,940 --> 00:51:17,940
child
1375
00:51:15,900 --> 00:51:20,400
is it because I've not you know the DM's
1376
00:51:17,940 --> 00:51:22,319
not giving them enough information or I
1377
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,760
think those those kind of discussions
1378
00:51:22,319 --> 00:51:25,619
are quite interesting and can hold quite
1379
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,880
a lot of value not that I have any you
1380
00:51:25,619 --> 00:51:28,740
know like some golden bullets some
1381
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:30,420
silver golden bullets silver bullets ad
1382
00:51:28,740 --> 00:51:33,500
there but I don't know if you'll take
1383
00:51:30,420 --> 00:51:36,000
you any thoughts or anything my puzzles
1384
00:51:33,500 --> 00:51:37,680
and riddles and that kind of thing
1385
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:42,300
usually when players get pretty quickly
1386
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:44,040
uh so I think I use Easy slash trophy
1387
00:51:42,300 --> 00:51:45,720
enough ones that that they kind of can
1388
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:47,460
figure it out pretty quickly you know
1389
00:51:45,720 --> 00:51:49,200
the most complicated puzzles I've had
1390
00:51:47,460 --> 00:51:50,880
are like a few levers on a wall kind of
1391
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,800
thing or whatever you know so it's not
1392
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:54,480
it's not like crazy hard I'm not
1393
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:56,040
expecting them to do a Sudoku or
1394
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:58,680
something to like get through to the
1395
00:51:56,040 --> 00:52:00,900
next room you know so uh yeah I haven't
1396
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:03,660
had a ton of issues with that and
1397
00:52:00,900 --> 00:52:06,059
honestly to me it's okay with me if
1398
00:52:03,660 --> 00:52:08,640
players like met a game or use outside
1399
00:52:06,059 --> 00:52:11,400
knowledge to answer the riddles or the
1400
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:12,900
the the puzzles because like that's kind
1401
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:14,520
of part of the fun for me is like giving
1402
00:52:12,900 --> 00:52:16,440
them a puzzle and then let them like
1403
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:17,940
draw down a piece of paper like they're
1404
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:19,559
all talking together about ideas about
1405
00:52:17,940 --> 00:52:20,880
how it's gonna work kind of thing and
1406
00:52:19,559 --> 00:52:22,619
that's like that's just fine to me
1407
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:25,319
that's kind of the thing I'm going for
1408
00:52:22,619 --> 00:52:27,059
anyway instead of like uh uh you know
1409
00:52:25,319 --> 00:52:28,920
you've you've got nine intelligence so
1410
00:52:27,059 --> 00:52:30,240
you would not know that and I don't I
1411
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,400
don't care at that point it's just kind
1412
00:52:30,240 --> 00:52:34,319
of more of the fun thing so
1413
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:36,780
I think there's definitely a right and a
1414
00:52:34,319 --> 00:52:39,420
wrong way to do quiz uh I keep saying
1415
00:52:36,780 --> 00:52:41,339
quizzes like a right and a wrong way to
1416
00:52:39,420 --> 00:52:43,980
do puzzles and riddles and traps and
1417
00:52:41,339 --> 00:52:46,500
that kind of thing but I think it can
1418
00:52:43,980 --> 00:52:48,660
kind of vary between groups
1419
00:52:46,500 --> 00:52:51,180
and that's I mean I'm in the same boat
1420
00:52:48,660 --> 00:52:53,280
as you that's why I'm I've stripped all
1421
00:52:51,180 --> 00:52:55,500
their items and stuff for this few
1422
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:58,079
chapters because it's just I want you
1423
00:52:55,500 --> 00:53:00,300
guys to talk about it and despite having
1424
00:52:58,079 --> 00:53:03,839
no spells no class features no abilities
1425
00:53:00,300 --> 00:53:05,579
right no magical items I have this is on
1426
00:53:03,839 --> 00:53:07,859
I'm not there's no lip service to the
1427
00:53:05,579 --> 00:53:10,920
show or whatever they have been
1428
00:53:07,859 --> 00:53:12,960
more engaged between you know when we've
1429
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:14,640
taken a 15-minute break between you know
1430
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,079
in the session they'll be talking about
1431
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:18,780
it the whole time
1432
00:53:16,079 --> 00:53:20,280
after the show they're like oh maybe we
1433
00:53:18,780 --> 00:53:21,900
try that maybe that that person comes in
1434
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:23,819
at 15 minutes past maybe he has
1435
00:53:21,900 --> 00:53:25,800
something to do with that they have
1436
00:53:23,819 --> 00:53:27,839
never that level of Engagement before
1437
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:29,880
and that's what that's what I want that
1438
00:53:27,839 --> 00:53:32,520
is I'm like oh perfect I'm this is the
1439
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:34,740
dream I am now exceptionally happy that
1440
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,540
you guys spent rather than going to the
1441
00:53:34,740 --> 00:53:37,920
toilet and getting drinks and stretching
1442
00:53:36,540 --> 00:53:40,800
your legs you've just spent it talking
1443
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:44,040
about what to do when we come back that
1444
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:46,319
is I'm I've won I can I can seem happy
1445
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:48,240
tonight yeah very similar to like the
1446
00:53:46,319 --> 00:53:50,220
after the session where like they're all
1447
00:53:48,240 --> 00:53:52,079
like oh this that the other and then
1448
00:53:50,220 --> 00:53:53,640
they're all talking excitedly for
1449
00:53:52,079 --> 00:53:55,619
however many minutes after there's no
1450
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:57,359
better feeling than than ending a
1451
00:53:55,619 --> 00:54:00,119
session and then having them having so
1452
00:53:57,359 --> 00:54:02,099
many ideas to share and and theories to
1453
00:54:00,119 --> 00:54:03,599
swap and and you know stuff like that
1454
00:54:02,099 --> 00:54:05,880
that's that's my favorite is just
1455
00:54:03,599 --> 00:54:08,940
sitting there and basking in the in
1456
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:10,380
excitement of the game so yeah yeah and
1457
00:54:08,940 --> 00:54:11,819
that's what that in the same vein like
1458
00:54:10,380 --> 00:54:13,980
that's with the puzzles as you said
1459
00:54:11,819 --> 00:54:16,200
that's exactly the same I want you guys
1460
00:54:13,980 --> 00:54:17,819
to talk about it because that's you're
1461
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:20,579
the line between you and your character
1462
00:54:17,819 --> 00:54:22,440
is becoming this blurred folk and you're
1463
00:54:20,579 --> 00:54:23,880
merging into one and that's that's the
1464
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:26,460
Sweet Spot there that's the way we want
1465
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:28,760
to be here there's more that's often as
1466
00:54:26,460 --> 00:54:28,760
we can
1467
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,920
is there anything that you wanted to
1468
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,619
talk about that we haven't quite hit yet
1469
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:36,720
I guess it would just be
1470
00:54:34,619 --> 00:54:37,500
an admonition to all the listeners out
1471
00:54:36,720 --> 00:54:40,319
there
1472
00:54:37,500 --> 00:54:42,660
um I've talked to some of the biggest
1473
00:54:40,319 --> 00:54:44,940
most popular DMS out there not not the
1474
00:54:42,660 --> 00:54:46,859
most or the second most I'm working on
1475
00:54:44,940 --> 00:54:48,420
it but I've talked to a lot of a lot of
1476
00:54:46,859 --> 00:54:52,559
great DMS out there
1477
00:54:48,420 --> 00:54:55,020
and all of them have made mistakes and
1478
00:54:52,559 --> 00:54:57,180
all of them easily own up to them and
1479
00:54:55,020 --> 00:54:59,400
say that they they still make them and
1480
00:54:57,180 --> 00:55:02,700
that they're learning from them and so
1481
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:06,119
it is okay that you are making mistakes
1482
00:55:02,700 --> 00:55:08,940
you know don't beat yourself up don't
1483
00:55:06,119 --> 00:55:10,619
feel like you can't DM because you're
1484
00:55:08,940 --> 00:55:13,020
going to make mistakes as well if you've
1485
00:55:10,619 --> 00:55:14,760
thought about it and you want to try but
1486
00:55:13,020 --> 00:55:16,740
it's whole you know your fear of of
1487
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:19,020
screwing up is holding you back like
1488
00:55:16,740 --> 00:55:21,420
that's kind of the point you know you've
1489
00:55:19,020 --> 00:55:24,540
gotta you've gotta stub your toe and
1490
00:55:21,420 --> 00:55:27,119
you've got to stumble and trip and and
1491
00:55:24,540 --> 00:55:29,400
that kind of thing to learn how to walk
1492
00:55:27,119 --> 00:55:30,780
and then run same thing with dming
1493
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:33,420
you're gonna make mistakes you're gonna
1494
00:55:30,780 --> 00:55:36,059
screw up and that's totally fine and
1495
00:55:33,420 --> 00:55:37,920
everybody from the very best DM on to
1496
00:55:36,059 --> 00:55:40,740
the the person who just ran their first
1497
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:43,319
session last night has made mistakes and
1498
00:55:40,740 --> 00:55:44,880
is learning from them so it happens and
1499
00:55:43,319 --> 00:55:46,920
that's that's part of the game and
1500
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:49,440
that's I don't know that's part of the
1501
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:51,059
fun for me too is like oh man I made
1502
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:53,400
this compass that they can use to find
1503
00:55:51,059 --> 00:55:55,619
anything like it's just fun and and it's
1504
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:58,200
a good lesson to learn that I'll never
1505
00:55:55,619 --> 00:56:00,119
give them an item like that again and I
1506
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:02,579
move on you know and we keep playing and
1507
00:56:00,119 --> 00:56:04,140
we keep having fun so uh yeah that
1508
00:56:02,579 --> 00:56:06,000
that's what I have to say about mistakes
1509
00:56:04,140 --> 00:56:09,240
is everyone makes them from the very
1510
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:10,200
best DM on down and everyone who makes
1511
00:56:09,240 --> 00:56:12,059
them
1512
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:14,280
realizes what they can learn from them
1513
00:56:12,059 --> 00:56:17,520
and and uh you know becomes a better DM
1514
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:19,980
because of it yeah no I I couldn't agree
1515
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:21,540
more and it maybe I'm doing myself and
1516
00:56:19,980 --> 00:56:23,040
my game at this service and this is
1517
00:56:21,540 --> 00:56:25,500
probably gonna make it sound worse than
1518
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:27,299
it is but I often feel like every
1519
00:56:25,500 --> 00:56:29,460
chapter or Arc that I go through it
1520
00:56:27,299 --> 00:56:30,420
sometimes feels like a beta test now the
1521
00:56:29,460 --> 00:56:32,339
players probably didn't they probably
1522
00:56:30,420 --> 00:56:33,420
see it they're probably happy but I
1523
00:56:32,339 --> 00:56:36,059
always come out the other side being
1524
00:56:33,420 --> 00:56:38,339
like if I was to run that again here's
1525
00:56:36,059 --> 00:56:40,619
the things that I would make better yeah
1526
00:56:38,339 --> 00:56:42,660
that's after playing with the same guys
1527
00:56:40,619 --> 00:56:44,400
for two and a half years of stuff I've
1528
00:56:42,660 --> 00:56:46,380
had two and a half years to plan I still
1529
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:48,000
come out the other side and go wow I
1530
00:56:46,380 --> 00:56:49,500
could have done x y and z a lot better
1531
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:51,839
and if I were to run that again that's
1532
00:56:49,500 --> 00:56:53,099
what I would do and luckily part of the
1533
00:56:51,839 --> 00:56:54,720
experience comes from the players not
1534
00:56:53,099 --> 00:56:56,579
realizing that excellent Z could have
1535
00:56:54,720 --> 00:56:59,579
been a lot better and I think that's the
1536
00:56:56,579 --> 00:57:02,339
best I can certainly ever hoped for
1537
00:56:59,579 --> 00:57:04,559
yeah but you're absolutely right and and
1538
00:57:02,339 --> 00:57:07,680
that's exactly how I feel too after
1539
00:57:04,559 --> 00:57:09,059
every session I could give you a list of
1540
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:10,079
stuff where I'm like I should have done
1541
00:57:09,059 --> 00:57:12,480
this should have done that I should have
1542
00:57:10,079 --> 00:57:14,700
done that should have not done this and
1543
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,660
it just happens in it's part of learning
1544
00:57:14,700 --> 00:57:16,640
and that's how you're going to get
1545
00:57:15,660 --> 00:57:19,740
better
1546
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:21,599
excellent well uh thank you so much is
1547
00:57:19,740 --> 00:57:23,940
there anything that you would like to
1548
00:57:21,599 --> 00:57:26,400
promote yeah so I mentioned at the very
1549
00:57:23,940 --> 00:57:29,940
beginning of the show I have my own
1550
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:32,400
podcast called how not to DM similar uh
1551
00:57:29,940 --> 00:57:34,260
to danilo's show here um it features
1552
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:37,319
usually one guest or maybe a couple
1553
00:57:34,260 --> 00:57:39,299
guests it's a bit more structured um I
1554
00:57:37,319 --> 00:57:41,520
have interview questions so I ask people
1555
00:57:39,299 --> 00:57:43,619
about how they got into the game their
1556
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:44,880
mistakes and stuff um their best moments
1557
00:57:43,619 --> 00:57:46,680
behind the screen as well like really
1558
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,240
good moments that they remember that you
1559
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:50,099
can also learn from right I think you
1560
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:51,480
should learn from mistakes and you
1561
00:57:50,099 --> 00:57:52,559
should learn from the really cool stuff
1562
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,720
that has happened and how you can
1563
00:57:52,559 --> 00:57:56,760
replicate that and then I asked them
1564
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:58,799
about their cool projects so I've talked
1565
00:57:56,760 --> 00:58:01,460
to people who are streamers who are
1566
00:57:58,799 --> 00:58:04,380
podcasters who to design games
1567
00:58:01,460 --> 00:58:06,900
who do all sorts of different stuff
1568
00:58:04,380 --> 00:58:09,660
across the ttrpg space so all different
1569
00:58:06,900 --> 00:58:11,640
kinds of parts of the Hobby and yeah
1570
00:58:09,660 --> 00:58:14,160
it's been a lot of fun and each episode
1571
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:15,599
you know is is unique even though I ask
1572
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,040
similar questions you know everyone's
1573
00:58:15,599 --> 00:58:20,520
got different experiences that you can
1574
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:22,859
learn from and uh yeah my season two is
1575
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:24,960
probably winding down to an end or has
1576
00:58:22,859 --> 00:58:27,900
just finished probably by the time this
1577
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:29,760
is coming out so you've got season one
1578
00:58:27,900 --> 00:58:31,799
and two to go binge one is a bit rough
1579
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just because I hadn't gotten a good mic
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or anything like that yet I stumbled
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into podcasting and but uh yeah there's
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tons of good interviews out there tons
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of really interesting stuff people have
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chatted about and uh I think there's
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something there for everybody so you can
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go listen to it in any order and you can
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find that in the episode notes that
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Daniel is going to put in here so
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they'll be linked to my show to my link
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tree you can go find me on Twitter and
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chat with me there or or join uh the t4c
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Discord where you can chat with me about
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my show specifically as well so yeah uh
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if you have any questions about what we
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chatted about today hit Danilo and I up
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you know we're happy to talk about
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mistakes and ideas and ways you might
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00:59:09,359 --> 00:59:13,859
try to avoid them in the future but uh
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yeah uh love to have you listen to my
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show as well and tell me what you think
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absolutely and I think uh one thing I'm
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probably most one topic I'm most
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00:59:19,079 --> 00:59:23,460
qualified to talk about is mistakes now
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I'm thinking about it so uh
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00:59:23,460 --> 00:59:27,660
we are human I know it's like you talk
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00:59:26,220 --> 00:59:30,299
you know your first season is a bit
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rough you talk as if like the first 50
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episodes of thinking quickly weren't
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done on the back of a coaster like
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there's two kinds of podcasters out
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there they're the ones who are like
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they're the ones who who planned their
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first season for like a year in advance
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and then have it all down to a science
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by the time they start and then there's
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the other group which we fall into we're
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00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:56,460
like I guess I'm doing a podcast now and
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here's this 10 month from Amazon and you
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know I'm recording on Discord and
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half of it's garbled then the other half
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01:00:00,660 --> 01:00:06,180
you can barely understand and then we
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move on from there so uh it definitely
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sounds better now and your show does too
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thank you yeah we will make our mistakes
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don't we to put a nice little book
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01:00:11,579 --> 01:00:15,359
effect on that episode there well all
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that's left to say is thank you ever so
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much Derek for joining us today that was
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uh yeah a lot of fun a lot of fun thanks
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so much for having me Daniela I know
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we've we've been back and forth for six
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01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:27,059
eight months now about when we're gonna
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01:00:25,020 --> 01:00:28,920
do this so it feels good to finally sit
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down and to chat and I've had a ton of
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fun absolutely well thank you so much um
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me too and I'm glad we yeah life has
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01:00:34,020 --> 01:00:39,059
allowed us finally to have this
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01:00:35,940 --> 01:00:40,980
discussion thank you everybody for
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01:00:39,059 --> 01:00:42,780
listening at home as usual everything
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01:00:40,980 --> 01:00:44,700
will be in the episode description so I
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would please encourage you to go and
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01:00:44,700 --> 01:00:50,520
check out all of Derek's stuff otherwise
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thank you all for listening and good
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01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:55,460
night and now it's time for the patreon
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01:00:52,619 --> 01:00:59,220
shout outs thank you to Robert Hartley
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01:00:55,460 --> 01:01:02,400
DM for Viva La dirt league and writer on
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01:00:59,220 --> 01:01:04,319
the DND the logic web series I would
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01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:06,780
encourage everybody to check him out at
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01:01:04,319 --> 01:01:09,599
Robert Hartley GM on Twitter and twitch
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01:01:06,780 --> 01:01:11,880
thank you to optional rule a two-time
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01:01:09,599 --> 01:01:14,119
guest of the show and a very insightful
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01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:17,720
and knowledgeable source of information
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01:01:14,119 --> 01:01:20,940
please check them out at
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01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:23,040
www.optionalrule.com huge huge huge
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01:01:20,940 --> 01:01:25,559
thank you to a great friend of the show
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01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:28,680
Matthew Perkins who's out there making
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01:01:25,559 --> 01:01:30,839
hilarious and educational Dungeons and
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01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:32,819
Dragons content please go and check out
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01:01:30,839 --> 01:01:35,099
his stuff at Matthew perkins.net where
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01:01:32,819 --> 01:01:36,720
you can find links to all of his socials
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01:01:35,099 --> 01:01:38,099
and all of his content including his own
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01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:40,380
patreon which I would very much
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01:01:38,099 --> 01:01:43,500
encourage you to check out
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01:01:40,380 --> 01:01:45,599
thank you to matchstreet at mp street88
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01:01:43,500 --> 01:01:46,980
on Twitter for supporting the show if
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you need support running your personal
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01:01:46,980 --> 01:01:52,319
or business schedule head to virtualtime
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01:01:49,619 --> 01:01:54,059
hustle.com or on Instagram to make that
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01:01:52,319 --> 01:01:56,400
difference between should do and done
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01:01:54,059 --> 01:01:57,900
boss it better with support from cat who
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01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:59,640
will help you get back that essential
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time you've been searching for
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if you would like to support what we do
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01:02:01,140 --> 01:02:05,520
and get four shout outs a month head
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over to patreon.com thinking critically
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01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:11,240
or you can just buy me a coffee at
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